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  • A Wordless Play Space at the Sexsibility Festival (2023)

    A Wordless Play Space at the Sexsibility Festival (2023)

    People dress up to the teeth, sparkly, unapologetically, and mix everything: spanking, dancing, orgasming. They simply go bananas for one night. But that’s not how I work. It’s not sexy to me. Don’t get me wrong. I love the hedonistic techno underground scene. It was what first pulled me to Berlin more than twenty years…

  • Gallery: Point of Surrender (2022)

    Gallery: Point of Surrender (2022)

    Point of Surrender, the couples retreat on tantra and BDSM, can be all about the point of contact between two people. It’s an exploration of what happens when being deeply held simultaneously as profoundly vulnerable. It’s a magical spaceā€”the ropes, whips, kundalini and sacredness help. But the reality is so much simpler and more human.…

  • Learning to be served as a dominant (2022)

    Learning to be served as a dominant (2022)

    Sometimes, I like to challenge people I mentor to explore the least traditional masculine or dominant activity they can train their submissive to serve them with. Some classics are getting fucked with a strapon or given a relaxing bondage experience. So many heteronormative dominant men I meet are shit scared of anything that might test…