This is for YOU. Medical Massage. Bound Bodywork. Repterapi (therapeutic rope). Hypnosis. They are all ways to serve. To be a guiding hand on your journey. A safe space to let the guard down and just rest, or to face old fears, or to experience something completely new. The session work is my exploration in how to serve another in a one-on-one meeting. What I offer is the expertise that I’ve built up over a lifetime. As a lesson, or an experience, or something in-between. Selected, tailored, and curated just for you. You pay for my time, so I can focus on you.
The price is 1200 SEK / 120 Euro per hour. The sessions are offered at my home studio in Stockholm. A standard session is three hours long. It is possible to come alone or with a partner or friend. It is always tailored to your needs and desires.
I offer a package price because I prefer to work recurring with clients, and that has proven itself very successful – three sessions for the price of two.
Watch the short documentary BBC made about my therapeutic rope bondage.
What do people say?
Being bound by Andy was an extraordinary experience. His calm and focused presence very quickly put me at total ease and I could fully relax into the experience. Within minutes my mind went into “thoughtless mode” and what followed was a journey of bodily sensations, underscored by the tantric pleasure-response that my body readily drops into when I feel safe. The way Andy seemingly intuitively knew how to touch me and move me with his hands, the ropes and his breath was wonderful. It was such a precious gift to be able to experience this level of bliss from a virtual stranger without the expectation of having to provide anything in return apart from my participation. Andy is a true magician of kinbaku and conscious touch!
Annelie
I am still processing the beauty of the first session – and feeling extremely good about it. Something big changed inside myself and I feel confident about my own identity and force. It was a spiritual enlightenment, solving questions that I even did not remember, like being able to revisit pain from a long past, facing it with beauty and calm, touching it without despair but with the confidence that in your hands the guidance would be enough. I went into hypnosis almost immediately and with the face down, my muscles were relaxed and I entered a mysterious portal of gratitude for being held and taken care of even when experimenting immensus vulnerability. The inner visit to the dark sides is beautiful because it feels extremely safe, and in a sublime atmosphere, where the wish and desire needs to wait. The feelings get stronger because there is no way to move forward, we are immobilized, we just need to accept what is given, the sound of the breathing, the strong pressure in the thigh, the enchanting way of seeing me tied so beautifully like a live sculpture become one of the biggest rewards. The way you look at us after doing your job makes us feel as creatures – like a proud artist contemplating his creation does. It will not be possible to forget the quiet sound of the rope touching my skin and the fascination of being undressed while tied. The way you tied my hair with rope and had full control of the movements of my neck, my postures, it was a way of wild and respectful freedom. No rush, full control and extremely sensual, bondage with you changed the way I see myself. It is with devotion and gratitude that I write you this letter. You got one more enthusiastic fan.
Ilana
Every session with Andy is like opening a mysterious box of secrets – secrets that are deeply hidden under numerous layers of external garbage that I tend to call “self”. I never know what I’ll find inside. I come with some messy armful of the things that bother my mind and hurt my soul, and Andy, being a highly intuitive person and knowledgeable master, can perfectly read and unfold my needs to create a unique experience through building a dialogue with my body which effectively leads me to unblocking a communication channel with that beyond-verbal, subpersonal (or even transpersonal) core that knows all the answers. For me it’s a lot similar to a journey, and Andy is an excellent guide driving all that machinery to the unknown lands of subconscious, making a trip safe and surrounded with care and unconditional love. I’m so much grateful to Andy for all the treasures I brought back from my journeys, for being such a sensitive, empathic and sharing person, for building a trusting and sensual space where I can feel safe to let myself expose my vulnerability and learn about what level of freedom it can give; for relaxing tea conversations, for understanding and guiding, for creation of multi-dimensional playgrounds, for showing the beauty of universal dance of giving and receiving, power and surrender, will and matter.
Lena
Are you clear with your intention?
Please consider why you are booking a session with me. Therapeutic exchange is essential to me. Because since you are paying me, the focus is 100% on you and your needs.
Once I have formed a therapeutic relationship, I will not engage privately with the same person.
If you are curious about me as a private person, want me to teach in your local community, or simply want to flirt, please contact me here.
When do you want to come?
Rescheduling and cancellation policy
You can cancel your session for free until two weeks before the appointment; after that, there is a cancellation fee of 1200 SEK. You can reschedule for free until two days before the appointment; after that, there is a rescheduling fee of 1200 SEK. If you fail to show up without prior notice, you will be charged 3600 SEK for the full session.
Liability agreement
To have a safer session, I understand that it is my responsibility to.
Before the session, state my boundaries, emotional and physical needs, and relevant traumatic experiences related to power, control and sexuality. And explain my ability to communicate during a session.
During the session, monitor my emotional and physical well-being and verbalize if a change is needed. Andy might be good at reading body language, but he is a horrible mind-reader.
After the session, if you realize that you had an unwanted experience or couldn’t communicate during the session, give this feedback to Andy as soon as possible.
If you want to remain anonymous, you can do it through one of these contacts. They all have an understanding of Andy’s work and a long experience working with similar modalities; Carl-Johan Rehbinder, Linda Örtengren and Lin Holmquist.
Finally, remain aware that bondage, BDSM and tantra can be dangerous activities. Both physically and emotionally. And even if Andy is a professional with many years of experience, the client is ultimately responsible for their experience.
After a session, you have three days to accept the package deal. You will receive one invoice for two sessions and then have a third session for free. You have one year to use your sessions; after that, they are expired. It is recommended to do the three sessions within a six-week period.
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